Fresh to the Neighborhood: Dealing with Your Neighbors

by Garrett W Burdick 01/13/2020

Photo by Ricarda Mölck via Pixabay

Moving to a new neighborhood brings with it, well, the new neighbors. Although you may be an exceptionally private person — others, by nature, are naturally curious. They want to know who’s moved in next door. This is particularly true when your house is just a few feet or a few inches away from their house. Sometimes, your window looks right out on their window — and vice versa. When it comes to nosy neighbors, follow these tips.

Be Proactive

Introduce yourself and satisfy their curiosity about your basic information. Without getting too personal, let them know who is living in the house with you and if you moved into the neighborhood for a specific reason.

Be Prepared

Many neighborhoods have a neighborhood watch. If this is the case, meet the people that look out for strangers so that they know who you are. Ask them questions too so that you know what kinds of things trigger a response from the watch or from other neighbors. If your neighborhood has an association, ask about it and meet the officers.

Be Courteous

People that live in one place for an exceptionally long time may fear change. Let them know you hope to love the neighborhood as much as they do. If their questions bother you, deflect and redirect the conversation.

Be Inventive

Builders don’t always pay attention to how one house aligns with another. If your neighbor’s dining room overlooks your bathroom, cover your bathroom windows with a frosted or stained-glass overlay. It’s a simple fix that lets daylight shine in your bathroom without the neighbors peering in, even accidentally. If it’s a bedroom window, cellular blinds let light in but give full coverage.

Be Friendly

When the opportunity arises, invite your neighbor for a cup of tea or simply to share a conversation while you weed the flowerbed. Friendliness goes a long way toward increasing everyone’s comfort level as new neighbors. Moving into a new neighborhood is a time of adjustment for both the old neighbors and the new. 

If you’re proactive, prepared, courteous, inventive and friendly, you’ll soon move from being merely neighbors to being friends. Your real estate professional is a great resource on learning about your neighborhood too, so ask them what they know.

About the Author
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Garrett W Burdick

Garrett Burdick is a Real Estate Professional and has demonstrated repeated success as an entrepreneur whose innovation, proficiency, and out-of-the-box thinking have all earned him the reputation as a seasoned strategist across multiple industries. Over the course of a decade, he has cultivated extensive knowledge in real estate. Garrett, a licensed Real Estate Agent has joined a prominent brokerage Vanguard Properties in Marin County to offer real estate services for sellers and buyers. With several years as a Real Estate Professional he is equipped with local marketplace familiarity and renovation expertise. Ultimately, Garrett is on a mission to offer a top-tier, seamless, and stress-free transaction to each and every client, and serve as their trusted ally during one of the largest investments they will ever make in their lifetime.

Outside of his career, Garrett is an avid professional photographer who owns Birdman Inc Locations Services and Buzz Photo Booths. He even has a culinary background as a Culinary Institute of America graduate. Above all, he cherishes spending quality time with his loved ones in San Rafael. He is happily married to his wife Tanya, and they are the proud parents of two amazing San Rafael High School boys, Walker and Cooper. Whether you’re seeking a new home or are a homeowner interested in selling your property, Garrett is here to help you turn your goal into a reality. Feel free to reach out to him at any time with your inquiries and he will be more than happy to answer your questions.